As such, that makes it tricky to use any of the myriad of triggers that I’ve got implanted in Liz’s mind when we’re around other people. Which is a shame, because sometimes the room with the crowd full of people is the room you really *want* to play in. My triggers are all fairly blatant, and if my friends noticed me telling Liz sternly to “Obey” find herself “Bound” or to “Freeze” they’d probably wonder what the hell was going on.
This is where physical triggers have begun to come in handy. (Physical as opposed to verbal) For the most part, these are triggers linking physical sensations together. What that means, is I can do one (innocent innocuous) thing to Liz, and she can experience it in a totally different (randy and exciting) way.
For example, her earlobes are connected to a very sensitive, very pleasureable part of her body. (You’ll have to guess where), but all I need do, to get her squirming and gasping quite ecstatically is kiss just beside and around and on her earlobe. Or y’know… If she sits down with her back resting against me, I can take my fingers and brush down the side of her neck, maybe lingering a little longer over those earlobes of hers…
I took it further with her left hand (or is it the right? I’ve a terrible memory, though sometimes that makes it more fun) I’ve connected each of her fingers to a different body part.
Say for example I want to slowly run my nails down the backs of Liz’s legs, all I have to do, is trace a fingernail down the length of her first finger. Liz will find herself stretching out her legs, shuddering softly and murmering her approval lightly...
Or maybe I want to kiss and caress her neck, but we’re not in the kind of company where it’s polite for me to start doing so. Well in *that* case, I’ll stroke or kiss her ring finger. Liz will get this nice dreamy smile on her face and as far as anyone knows, all we’re doing is holding hands.
I’ll leave it to your imaginations where the other two fingers are linked to. Needless to say, they link to areas that it’s not possible to play with when out in public. Well no… it’s “possible” to play with them, but doing so might get us arrested.
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For when I want to turn up the heat, I’ve also given Liz an “Intensify” trigger. I use this one most often when I’m kissing her neck. Liz *does* kinda like having her neck nibbled, and it’s more than just a little bit. As I’m not really a fan of open neck wounds (sorry, “love bites”) I’m not always willing to nibble her neck quite as hard as she’d like.
When I want Liz to feel like I genuinely could be snacking on her neck, (I know, she’s weird, but I don’t care, I love her ;o) I just cup her elbow, and carry on doing what I’m doing. The reaction is *very* noticeable though… along with the breathing and squirming… anyway you don’t want to hear about *that!*
On a number of occasions afterwards, Liz has checked out her neck in the mirror and told me “Weird, I could have sworn you gave me a love bite”, I just tend to laugh and tell her that I’m *that* good that I leave no marks ;o)
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